there are over 200+ of photos and we can only choose 30 poses!! somemore we have so many series (aka poses/scenes) and it certainly makes the selection tougher! we have to go through about 3 rounds of filtering before we ended up with 40 poses and this means that we have to top up about $500 for the additional.
now i understand why people say bridal shop are all out to slaughter newly weds..
also now then i understand why people say couples quarrel very often during wedding preparations. if i were to say that me and dear don't quarrel at all its all bullshit. haha. so we had a little argument today over the additional photos as dear felt that some poses are not very nice and yet we still chose them. dear is angry that why i didn't voice out when i don't find them nice as well as we could have excluded them. ironically, i didn't voice out because i thought that dear like the pics and i don't want to disappoint her by not having the additional poses. well, sometimes when we try to please another person, we try to give in but it may not be what the other person wants. instead, being open and say what we really feel maybe better instead..
what i've learnt: if anyone is not happy/agreeable with something, the person
has to voice it out. if keep quiet then its assumed that he/she is agreeable and
there shall not be any comments after that.
just hope that dear will not be angry anymore.... 小姐小姐别生气，改天我请你去看戏！
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